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Frequently Asked Questions

On this page you'll find answers to some of the most common questions we are asked—like how our approach differs from mediation and what our transpartisan identity means. If you find your question isn't answered here, please do contact us.

How can my community, campus, or organization work with Essential Partners? What's the first step?

Essential Partners offers training, facilitation, coaching, and consultation. If you want to develop skills in facilitation or communication across differences, our training can help build the capacity of your whole organization or community, the leadership team, or a representative group of stakeholders (or any variation thereof).

We custom design and facilitate conversations intended to help participants accomplish their purposes. If you hope to shift the whole culture of your organization or team, we can work with you to design a series of projects intended to meet various stakeholders where they are.

We also work with leaders or facilitators as they prepare for challenging conversations. Click here to schedule an initial free consultation with a member of our programming staff.

Will you travel to me?

Absolutely! Our work takes us all over the world. In the past 30 years, we’ve worked in communities all across North America and in more than twenty countries across the globe.

My community/organization needs a mediator. Do you offer mediation or conflict resolution services?

Sometimes communities need a conversation that ends in a policy decision, vote, or agreement. Frequently our projects lead to resolutions, collective decisions, or agreements. But we do not consider ourselves primarily conflict resolution practitioners.

Our work transforms conflicts. Dialogue prioritizes communication, trust, and relationships as the necessary foundation for effective collaboration, conflict resolution, and decision-making.  

As one recent client noted, “The dialogue had to come first and inform the decision-making process because even in this very small and homogeneous population, folks had become deeply divided.”

Our work is most valuable for communities  that wish to be more cohesive, more resilient, and better prepared to face difficult moments or decisions in the future.

EP’s approach creates a solid foundation for collective action, mediation, or strategic planning. Contact us for a free consultation so we can set you up for success.

Do you provide diversity, anti-racism, or implicit bias training?

Diverse workplaces, studies show, are more efficient, creative, and effective—as long as all team members feel heard, included, and recognized.

Essential Partners helps communities and workplaces build trust, deepen mutual understanding, and find points of connection across differences of identities.

Through hands-on training, coaching, design, and consultation, we invest our partners with the ability to navigate differences with honesty, dignity, and generosity.

Ready to get started? Contact us for a free consultation.

What are Essential Partners’ political affiliations?

Essential Partners is nonpartisan (really!). We have worked with pastors in evangelical congregations, with trans-partisan initiatives, with conservative communities and with liberal advocacy groups.

One form of polarization centers around political partisanship, but we help people address the issues that matter most to them. That might be a new school building or a public art installation. Any point of conflict can create a polarizing cycle.

We work with any group of people who want to engage constructively across differences and recognize that the status quo isn’t working—people who want to feel heard and feel their voices make a difference. Our work is needed as much within political groups as between them.

EP’s approach has tangible outcomes: improved social cohesion, resilience in the face of differences, improved trust, more nuanced understanding, and stronger personal relationships. As process experts, we design each conversation based on the needs, purposes, culture, and participants in a specific community. No two are the same.

How are you different from all these other dialogue groups?

The groundbreaking innovations of Essential Partners, founded in 1989, has served as a foundational influence in the field of dialogue across differences.

More recently-forms groups—such as Better Angels, Living Room Conversations, and Ben Franklin Circles, among many others—utilize aspects of our approach. In many cases, we served as a thought partner on the design of these programs, lending specific exercises and co-designing proprietary engagements. We are proud of the impact we have had.

What distinguishes Essential Partners is our commitment to lasting transformation at the community level.

While some groups aim to alleviate an immediate crisis or a specific type of conflict (political polarization, for instance), our vision is much broader. Our goal is to equip communities with a greater capacity to navigate all differences of values, beliefs, and identities, whenever and however they arise.

We envision a world of thriving communities, strengthened by difference, connected by trust.

Find out more about what we do.

We would like you to teach us how to communicate more effectively in difficult moments. Could you do that in a 90-minute professional development session?

Nope. There is no “speed-dating” version of this work that has a lasting impact. Question anyone who tells you otherwise.