What are the stories we hold most dear about ourselves? What stories do we tell about others, and how do those stories take shape? Research indicates that we make sense of the world through stories. But stories - particularly the ones we tell about other people - can sometimes deepen the rifts that come between us, creating a feared other; a caricatured "Them."
This workshop offers tools and structures for harnessing the power of stories to move beyond stereotypes and fear, bringing “Us” and “Them” into relationship through understanding.
- Explore how stories can reinforce or erode stereotypes about “us” and “them.”
- Understand how stories can shape perception, individual behavior, and group dynamics.
- Explore the ways that telling stories in a facilitated conversation can foster new depths of understanding between people.
- Experience the effects of telling and reflecting on some of your own stories.
- Learn techniques for inviting fuller, more complex stories from others.
- Enhance your ability to listen to and make sense of other people's stories.
As a result of this workshop, you will be equipped to:
- Feel heard and understood, and able to listen more deeply to another’s perspectives.
- Help groups feel more connected and grounded in one another’s experiences.
- Create opportunities for opponents to be seen and understood; to see one another’s humanity, and rebuild their own by moving beyond assumptions.
- Harness the power of story in a range of settings, including facilitated dialogues, presentations or lectures, meetings, and interpersonal interaction.
Who might participate:
- Educators engaging students in difficult conversations involving personal experiences or identity
- Leaders and managers responsible for eliciting individual and shaping organizational stories
- Civic leaders looking to encourage greater mutual understanding across political or ideological differences
- Family therapists or mediators seeking to foster greater compassion between people in deep disagreement
- Coaches, facilitators, or organizational consultants seeking to integrate story more intentionally into their practice.
This program is facilitated by Senior Associate, Bob Stains.
This workshop is approved for 6 clock hours for national certified counselors, Massachusetts licensed mental health counselors, licensed marriage and family therapists, and New Hampshire pastoral psychotherapists. This program has been approved for 6 Social Work Continuing Education hours for relicensure, in accordance with 258 CMR. Collaborative of NASW and the Boston College and Simmons Schools of Social Work Authorization Number D 71160-3. Credits are accepted by the NH Board of Mental Health Practice for all licensed NH mental health professionals.
This workshop is an expanded version of a workshop of the same title developed in collaboration with Laura Black, Associate Professor in the School of Communication Studies at Ohio University.
For more information, reach out to firstname.lastname@example.org or 617-923-1216 ext. 10.
Personal Stories, Small Group Exercises, Active Listening, Reflection, Application through Case Studies
Incredibly impactful. I was surprised at how simple shifts in both speaking and listening can cultivate curiosity about one another and move beyond labels.
Stories can be healing, shaping vehicles for personal growth and development - not just to illustrate points.
The format demonstrated how to apply the tools to working with groups and helped to demonstrate what we were learning through active participation.